Yep? It is okay to nod your head. Our spiritual lives can have the same reaction when we don't have some healthy practices in our lives. Practices like being part of a healthy worship community and prayer are the same as our spiritual lives like exercise and enough water are to our body.
There are a number of Spiritual Disciplines I've practiced over the years and it has taken some time to come up with the combination which works for my schedule, so feel free to try a few for yourself to see what works best. There are some key elements you need to include in your combo:
- Worship with a worship community and not on a boat, in a field, or on the TV.
- Prayer in the morning and at night for starters, the more you pray the more you're gonna want to pray more (think prayer-endorphins).
- Scripture reading from the Bible. Online Bible reading is fine, but nothing can quite replace opening your Bible to find the book, the big number, the little number and smile when you do.
The combo pieces are the HOW you practice the key elements.
- Worship-Where? With whom? How engaged are you in worship? How do you prepare for worship? How do you share worship with someone else?
- Prayer-Do you sing your prayers? Write your prayers? Say them aloud or silent? Do you give God a chance to respond?
- Scripture-What do you read? How do you determine what you will read? Do you use a devotion with the scripture for a daily "nugget" to ponder? Do you write in your Bible or a notebook your reflections? Do you underline in your Bible?
**You may write in your Bible...there, I said it**
Some combinations I've tried which you may want to try as well...
- Worship, prayer (I pray a lot and in a lot of different ways), and daily devotion through an app on my phone
- Worship, prayer, and daily reading through an app on my phone
- Worship, prayer, daily scripture writing in a notebook, and daily reading through an app on my phone
Recently I've bumped it up and have found what seems to be providing quality God time in my everyday. I can also tell when I don't have them in my day...I feel sluggish and grumpy.
- In the morning I read the daily scripture from the YouVersion app. Sometimes I'll make an image or use one of theirs to share the text. Some days I just read the scripture over and over a few times.
- I pray from the text I read.
- When I get to work I write a scripture passage from one of those "Year in the Bible" Pinterest pages. I have a notebook dedicated to these writings.
- I pray from the text I wrote.
- When I get home, while the children do their homework or at a later time, I exercise for about an hour. This can be walking with a friend or doing some cardio with a video.
- I pray during the "cool down" portion of the workout.
It may seem like a lot, but I need it. Just one scripture for a few minutes in the morning isn't enough and I wasn't receiving it into my heart/mind. It was like a flash in my day that came and went, the opposite of what should happen with a Spiritual Discipline. I don't know about you, but the days can be long and difficult without a sturdy foundation beneath you.
So, what's your combination? Start small if you feel overwhelmed. Begin with regular worship, prayer in the morning and using a devotion app on your phone. After doing that combo for a week or so, bump it up. Add another prayer time. Add underlining the scripture from the app in your Bible (you can write in your Bible...see, I said it again). Find that combination where you feel your cup filling, your conversations with God being more regular and vulnerable, and your foundation sturdier.
You got this!
P.S. As parents, our kids are watching and see the importance of worship, prayer, and scripture just like they watch to see if we eat all of our veggies at dinner.


